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LEADERSHIP IS A PROCESS OF SOCIAL INFLUENCE, WHICH MAXIMISES THE EFFORTS OF OTHERS TOWARDS THE ACHIEVEMENT OF A SHARED GOAL.

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Summer Reading

Here are some books worth reading this summer:

On leadership:


Personal Development:
The books below are to enhance your development as a leader and a human being.

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Character



Character is one of the values of Positive Leadership.

This means:


  • CHARACTER MAKES TRUST POSSIBLE - TRUST MAKES LEADERSHIP POSSIBLE
  • LIVING AND LEADING BY THE RULES
  • THE INTEGRAL STRENGTH THAT ENABLES THE RIGHT THING TO BE DONE, REGARDLESS OF ADVERSITY
  • WORK TO BECOME WORTH FOLLOWING


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Monday, May 24, 2010

Visualisation Techniques

How do athletes, and others who take performance very seriously, bring out the best in themselves?

Athletes began to use leading-edge techniques like mental rehearsal and focused concentration years before the general public had even heard of them. In the early days, we weren't sure then how these techniques worked, but we knew they did. Jack Nicklaus, for example, said that he would "watch a movie" in his head before each shot.

These days, thanks to many researchers, we know more. Researchers at the University of Texas monitored people's brain activities as they performed various body movements and also as they imagined performing the movements. They found that the actual physical movement consistently involved the interaction of several specific areas of the brain. Imagining the movement activated those same areas of the brain. In other words, mental rehearsal of an action puts the mind through a neural workout that is very much like the real thing. 

So whether you're trying to break your own personal best record in a sport or sell a new car to an ambivalent customer, mental rehearsal, or visualisation, can help you prepare for peak performance by walking you through successful strategies and potential pitfalls.  

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Hard Work



Hard Work is one of the values of Positive Leadership.

This means:


  • THERE IS NO SUBSTITUTE FOR WORK – IT IS THE PRICE OF SUCCESS
  • MUCH CAN BE DONE IF WE ARE ALWAYS WORKING
  • EFFECTIVE LEADERS PAY MORE ATTENTION TO PRODUCTION THAN PROMOTION – THEY GET THINGS DONE


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Sunday, May 23, 2010

Visualising the Finish Line

Visualisation techniques can help you become a better manager of your time.

Sometimes, the hardest part of a job is getting started. You've made your list of things to do. You are very clear about which tasks are "High Priority" and which are not. You know what job to do first, but somehow, you just never get started. You may divert yourself by starting less important tasks, or you may simply procrastinate until you've put so much pressure on yourself you "have to" begin. And with that much pressure on, the chances are you won't do your best work.

Next time you find yourself in this kind of a situation, try using visualisation to help you out. Visualise yourself completing the task. Vividly picture in your mind how good it will feel, what your rewards will be, how smoothly and confidently you will see the job through to the end.

Feel the satisfaction of a job well done. Feel the efficacy and sense of competency you will be generating in yourself. See exactly what it will look and feel like when the task is completed. Do this with your full concentration over and over. You will find it useful, and once started, a project tends to develop its own momentum.

You'll move forward much more quickly if you visualise the end-result before you start. Try it. Take charge of your time and your energy and enjoy the rewards that you'll earn. 

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Confidence & Poise

Confidence and Poise are values of Positive Leadership.


This means:


  • CONFIDENT LEADERS ACCEPT WHERE THEY’RE AT, BUT THEY’RE NOT SATISFIED IN STAYING THERE – THEY ARE SECURE ENOUGH TO KEEP GROWING
  • RECOGNISING YOUR OWN STRENGTHS AND LIMITATIONS ALLOWS THE DESIGN OF STRONG TEAMS WHO CAN COMPLEMENT YOUR OWN ABILITIES
  • LEADERS WITH CONFIDENCE ACCEPT THE RESPONSIBILITY OF BEING A LEADER
  • LEADERS PROJECT POISE AND UNSHAKEABLE CONFIDENCE EVEN WHEN NOT SUPPORTED BY OTHERS
  • LEADERS READILY SHARE CREDIT AND GIVE OPPORTUNITIES FOR VISIBILITY TO OTHERS

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Saturday, May 22, 2010

Philosophy of Life

Do you have a philosophy of life, for yourself? Could you describe your philosophy to someone else, in 25 words or less? 

We were talking with a group of business leaders recently, and we asked the group to raise their hands, if they had a philosophy of life. Everybody raised their hands. Then we asked them if they could write it down in 25 words or less. Only two hands went up. Surprised? We were not.

You see, while each of us probably does have a core philosophy to live by, very few of us could describe it to another person. We don't take the time to write it down. Words, whether on paper or in an electronic file, put substance to our beliefs. The words provide a touchstone that we can go back to, when life presents us with difficulties.

Our behaviour, every day, is a reflection of our beliefs. It is the way human beings are built. No matter what we might say, it is our actions that reflect our core beliefs, our philosophy of living. Everything that we do flows from this philosophy. If it doesn't, that is where stress and anxiety can be found.

Now you may ask, "If I write down my philosophy, what happens if things change, if I change? Do I doggedly follow my 'philosophy'?" That's the beauty of writing things down - the words can be crossed out, erased, and re-written! We are all going to change over time, as we learn the lessons that living teaches us.

So, we will ask this again: Do you have a philosophy of life? Can you describe it in 25 words or less? This weekend, we challenge you to find some quiet time for yourself, and to create your own philosophy - and write it down. 

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Judgement

Judgement is one of the values of Positive Leadership.


This means:


  • DECISION MAKING IS PART SCIENCE, PART ART.  JUDGEMENT DETERMINES THE RATIO
  • ADAPTING YOUR DECISION MAKING APPROACH TO SUIT THE TIME AVAILABLE AND THE CRITICALITY OF THE DECISION
  • STAKEHOLDER SENSITIVITY = TAKING INTO ACCOUNT THE IMPACT OF DECISIONS ON STAKEHOLDERS AND ACTING ACCORDINGLY
  • STAYING TUNED TO THE RISKS LINKED TO DECISIONS -  ALLOWING FOR MID-COURSE CORRECTIONS


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Friday, May 21, 2010

A Leader's Values Are Always 'On The Clock'

 


Andy Murray is the Worldwide CEO of Saatchi & Saatchi X and an industry pioneer in the new advertising discipline of shopper marketing. 



You're Always on the Clock from The Soderquist Center on Vimeo.
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Thursday, May 20, 2010

How to Develop Creative Leadership in Your Business

IBM has just released its 2010 Global CEO Study, based on face-to-face interviews conducted with over 1,500 CEOs spanning 60 countries and 33 industries.

Here are some key points from the study:
  • Even if the recession is over, 79% CEOs expect the business environment to become even more complex in coming years.
  • More than half of CEOs doubt their ability to manage this escalating complexity.
  • Western CEOs anticipate economic power to rapidly shift to developing markets, and foresee heavier regulation ahead.
  • A majority of CEOs cite creativity as the most important leadership quality required to cope with growing complexity.Creativity in this context is about creative leadership — i.e., the ability to shed long-held beliefs and come up with original and at times radical concepts and execution. And this requires bold, breakthrough thinking. We believe, however, that this isn't about having a lone creative leader at the top but rather about creating a "field" of creative leadership, by igniting the collective creativity of the organisation from the bottom up. In essence, creative leaders excel at creating creative leaders. 
The report identifies a group of standout organisations which delivered solid business results even during the recent downturn. Their revenue growth was six times higher than the rest of the sample and they plan to get 20% of revenues from new sources in the near future.

How do these firms succeed? These top performers focus on developing creative leaders across their organisations, deepening partnerships with employees and customers and achieving operational agility. Creative leaders in these firms are more prepared and willing to make deeper business model changes to realise their strategies. To win, they take more calculated risks and keep innovating in how they lead and communicate. They are ready to upset the status quo even if it is successful and are committed to ongoing experimentation with disruptive business solutions.

Here are some questions we believe you should address if you wish to develop creative leaders who can help your organisation cope with increasing complexity:
  • What cultural, political, organisational and technological barriers should your organisation overcome if it has to develop a cadre of creative leaders?
  • What structures, reward systems, processes, metrics and goals do you have in place to support creative leaders?
  • How do you encourage risk taking and learning from failure? How do you measure it?
  • Do you simply adopt best practices learned from industry leaders or do you shape "next practices" that will make your organisation the leader in the future?
  • How effective are you in partnering with customers, suppliers, employees and even your competition to improvise "good enough" solutions?


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The Physiology Of Leadership

In his book, The Talent Code: Greatness Isn't Born. It's Grown. Here's How. author Daniel Coyle looks at three basic elements of the development of talent: "ignition," which basically means motivation, "deep practice" and "master coaching." 

Each is valuable on its own, but their convergence is the key to developing skill. For each he offers practical real-life examples. For example, for deep practice, he writes about how Brazil emerged as a world hotbed for football even though until the 1950s it was nowhere on the world football map. He credits deep practice as developed by Brazilian youth when they indulged in a sport called "futsal"--football in a room, played with a ball half the size but twice the weight of an ordinary soccer ball. Futsal gave Brazilians deep practice and increased myelin effects to directly strengthen their skills on the football field.

Deep practice is a conscious activity, involving a cycle of distinct actions. Ignition is a hot, mysterious burst of passion, an awakening, and it is indispensible for firing up a person's motivation. Master coaching means guidance and feedback from a disciplined, committed coach. The development of great skill relies on the help of teachers who have the ability to nurture talent.

This book shows exactly how you can develop the skills of an expert.

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Wednesday, May 19, 2010

The Importance of Positive Emotions

Dr. Barbara Fredrickson, Kenan Distinguished Professor of Psychology at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, discusses her new book, Positivity: Groundbreaking Research Reveals How to Embrace the Hidden Strength of Positive Emotions, Overcome Negativity, and Thrive in this video:


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A Recipe for Greatness

In order to become great at any profession, whether it is being a nurse, professional athlete or corporate leader, it is critical to have a philosophy that guides your actions and behaviour.  Without such a philosophy, you will easily become distracted by the multitude of various avenues open to you each and every day.  You will lose focus of your goals and aspirations and, unfortunately, experience the frustration of having tried to follow several paths half-heartedly instead of one with a single purpose.  But it does not have to be this way at all.  We each choose every day what principles and postulates we will use as the guiding paths for our life.  

The main point is to decide what your philosophy of greatness is and do everything you can to adhere to this philosophy on a daily basis. 

Many of the building blocks below come from quotes and ideas included in the books of great athletic coaches.  These ideas have been grouped together based on the theme they represent.  The first three components below compromise a general attitude or view you must have in order to become great.  These all-encompassing principles permeate the remaining nine categories on achieving greatness.
  
General Attitude

Personal Action  The single most important component of becoming great is making yourself become great.  If you want something bad enough, you will achieve it.  If you do not achieve it, you will die trying, you will achieve something equally as satisfying, or you will realise you did not want it that bad.  Remember that "you are the maker of your own fortune." 

The Dream  Once you believe you can control your future, you then get to decide what the future will be.  Some might argue that the first categories should be reversed because you must have a dream before you can act on it.  However, if the first two are reversed, the dream of your future is the driving force.  While the dream is vital to becoming great, it cannot come before the person because then, by definition, you do not have ultimate control of your future, the dream does.  

Personal Responsibility  Personal responsibility goes hand in hand with personal action.  If you control your own future, then you are responsible for your future.  This is true whether your future turns out great, or turns out poorly. To conceptualise these first three categories and how they work together, think of it this way: you control your future (personal action); you get to decide what that future is (the dream) and you are responsible for how that future turns out (personal responsibility).




Attributes of Great Athletes   


#1  Enjoy Living  

In order to become great, you have to enjoy becoming great.  This means that you wake up every day and look forward to making yourself better that day.  However, this is easier said than done, especially when many of the experiences along the way may not be fun.  But if you can enjoy the learning that occurred in these experiences and be satisfied that you made it through an experience many others could not, you will enjoy yourself much more.  Like the song says, "Don't worry- be happy".  

#2  Leadership 

In order to become great or help others become great, you have to act great.  It is not enough to think great.  If you are not going to act as you think, you cannot expect to achieve what you want to achieve.  Also, you cannot expect others you lead (students, athletes, employees, etc.) to act great if you do not act great.  

#3  Teamwork 

People can't become great by themselves.  Sure, you must do most of the work and take personal responsibility for making yourself great, but no one has become great in isolation.  Teammates, coaches, a spouse, friends and/or family have helped in some way to make you great.  

#4  Commitment 

As stated earlier, it is not going to be easy to become great.  You must be willing to put forth much time and effort.  After all, if it were easy everyone would do it.  Continually strive to become better and better at what you are doing and learn as you proceed.  

#5  Learning 

You must find out what works for you and what does not.  If you strive to learn as much as you can every day, it is impossible not to become better.  And if you become better and better each day, you will eventually become great.  

#6  Decision-Making 

To become great, you must make great decisions.   However, all of your decisions will not be great.  Thus, you must have the foresight to know when you have made a bad decision and change it as soon as possible.  The main point is to think before you act.  

#7  Preparation 

Preparation is doing all the little things that separate becoming good from becoming great.  This includes some of the characteristics listed earlier such as learning and commitment.  Without preparing yourself to become great, you are destined to remain average.  

#8  Respect

To become great, you often have to work with, through or around others who are a part of your path to becoming great.  In doing so, you must respect their rights and treat them as you would want to be treated.  You must also respect yourself and stand up for your rights when that time arises.  If you and someone else are both going after the same dream, and if you believe there can only be one winner, enjoy the challenge the opposition brings.  Respect your opponents, but do not fear them. 

#9  Risk 

At some point in your journey to become great, you will face risk.  When this occurs, do not back down.  Do not take a stupid risk or take a risk every time.  But if you never take a risk, you will always wonder "what if", and this is a very frustrating way to go through life.  If you truly believe that you are the maker of your own fortune, then taking a calculated risk is the only possible solution.  

Summary

While these points are only a sample "recipe for greatness," they should serve as a solid basis for formulating your own recipe.  It will take much time and dedication for you to complete your own, but it will be a worthwhile experience.  It will not only help you learn more about yourself and your beliefs, it will provide concrete evidence to serve as a guide for your colleagues and team mates.  Good luck in your quest for greatness!

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Tuesday, May 18, 2010

The Importance of Positive Energy

When business legend Jack Welch says that great leaders have lots of positive energy and Pete Carroll, former coach of USC football credits positive energy as a key ingredient to winning two national championships, people listen, take notice and start asking questions. What is positive energy? How do I develop it as a leader? How can I infuse my team with it?

In order to build a positive company, then, it is essential that there is not only a positive leader but a positive leadership executive team who believes in nurturing and developing a culture of positive energy. 

If you have positive energy trickling up the organisation but your leaders and managers are causing negativity to flow down, the positive energy gets surrounded like the sun on a dark, cloudy day, creating a negative culture. With this in mind, it is important to ‘nurture the root’. Leaders who run successful, positive companies know that when you take care of the root of the tree you will always be pleased with the fruit it supplies. If you ignore the root, eventually the tree will dry up and so will the fruit. 

To fuel your business and generate growth with positive energy and ingrain it in everything you do here are a few best practices and strategies that will get you and your team moving in the right direction:

·        Hire Positive People and Enhance Communication
·        Fill the Void with Positive Energy - constantly and systematically 
·        Eliminate Energy Vampires
·        Drive with a Shared Vision and Purpose. (Vision helps everyone in the organisation see the road ahead and focus on the goals that will lead to their destination while purpose inspires them to work longer, harder and more passionately.)

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Purpose



Purpose is one of the values of Positive Leadership.

This means:

  • UNDERSTANDING WHY WE DO WHAT WE DO
  • UNDERSTANDING WHY A BUSINESS MATTERS TO ITS EMPLOYEES
  • LEADERS NEEDING TO BE WHAT THEY WANT TO SEE.

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Honourable Compromise


Former New York Mayor Rudy Giuliani talks about 'honourable' compromise - the governing style that makes bipartisanship possible for 'people of principle':


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Monday, May 17, 2010

An 'Exploit and Explore' Approach to Leadership

In today’s fast paced, fast changing world, executive teams should adopt a "both/and" approach to evaluating new strategic business opportunities, where they continue to exploit existing businesses even as they explore new ones. Success will require a degree of comfort with such a paradox, complete with its inherent tensions.

Some leadership teams are better equipped to cope with the paradox and complex business models than others. Those teams share a few important attributes:

  • They make decisions dynamically — remaining open to various options depending on context and events.
  • They commit to an overarching vision and agenda specific goals.
  • They actively seek to learn about each agenda and the relevant relationships.
  • They readily engage with conflict.
When leadership teams possess these attributes they can "host" contradictions, rather than fight them. 

Whether the leader takes responsibility for managing the paradox or the team takes collective accountability — leaders can support tensions, rather than seek resolutions that could limit a company's long-term strategic opportunities.

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Passion



Passion is one of the values of Positive Leadership.

This means asking yourself:

  • HOW GOOD DO YOU WANT TO BE?
  • DOES YOUR PASSION MATCH YOUR ASPIRATION?
  • WHETHER YOU BELIEVE YOU CAN ACHIEVE THE UNACHIEVABLE.

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Sunday, May 16, 2010

Business Leadership - The India Way

In India business leaders have come to be emblematic of national achievement and fortitude. When US Secretary of State Hillary Clinton visited India sixth months after the 2008 terrorist attack, she arrived first not in New Delhi, the political capital, but in Mumbai, the business capital, where she began by meeting with Indian business leaders, including Mukesh Ambani, executive chairman of Reliance Industries, and Ratan Tata, head of the $62 billion Tata Group.

India has a way of doing business that brings together business leadership with national leadership and societal leadership. Many heads of business are deeply involved in matters from climate change to child nutrition, and they find it entirely appropriate and even necessary to make their views on such matters public.

Some of this has to do with a need for development. The heads of many Indian businesses believe that national growth is essential for their own profitable expansion. Also, India has a long-standing tradition of business largesse, with many companies committed to social betterment through philanthropic giving and investment in infrastructure near their facilities. But the melding goes well beyond private profit and public charity. Indian business leaders care as much about national purpose as about financial results.

Thus the co-chairman and former chief executive of Infosys Technologies, Nandan Nilekani, has accepted a call to direct India's mammoth effort to provide a unique digital identification number for every one of its 1.1 billion citizens, which will make possible more effective delivery of social services across the country. And thus Hindustan Unilever has launched Project Shakti, which has used the principles of microfinance to create a sales force in some of the subcontinent's most remote regions. And big-name businesses have built community hospitals, grade schools and virtual universities across the country.

This India way of doing business has fuelled an economy that even in perilous global times remains a dynamo, driven by big companies that are bent on growing at prodigious rates. India's gross domestic product has been expanding more than twice as fast as the U.S.'s. Infosys Technologies employed 10,700 in 2002, but more than 100,000 just seven years later.

The essence of the India Way is best expressed by those business leaders themselves. We "think in English and act in Indian," observed R. Gopalakrishnan, the executive director of Tata Sons, the holding company of the Tata Group. The Tata Group comprises some 98 enterprises that employ 290,000 and book annual revenue equal to 3.2% of the nation's GDP.

"For the Indian manager," Gopalakrishnan explained, "his intellectual tradition, his y-axis, is Anglo-American, and his action vector, his x-axis, is in the Indian ethos. Many foreigners come to India, they talk to Indian managers and they find them very articulate, very analytical, very smart, very intelligent--and then they can't for the life of them figure out why the Indian manager can't do what is prescribed by the analysis."

The Indian "x-axis" is defined by four distinctive elements of managing:

1. Holistic engagement with employees. Indian business leaders see their firms as organic enterprises, where sustaining employee morale and building company culture are critical obligations and the very foundations of their success. People are viewed as assets to be developed, not costs to be reduced.

2. Improvisation and adaptability. Improvisation and adaptability are also at the heart of the India way. In a complex, often volatile environment with few resources and maddening red tape, business leaders learn to rely on their wits to circumvent the innumerable hurdles they recurrently confront. Anyone who has seen outdated equipment nursed along a generation after its expected lifetime with retrofitted spare parts and jerry-rigged solutions has witnessed this in action.

3. Creative value propositions. Given the enormous and intensely competitive domestic market and the country's discerning customers, most of them of modest means, Indian business leaders have of necessity learned to be highly creative in developing their value propositions, delivering entirely new products and services with extreme efficiency. A case in point: Tata Motors now produces the Nano automobile at a sticker price of just $2,500.

4. Broad mission and purpose. Indian business leaders place special emphasis on personal values and on having a vision of growth and strategic thinking. In addition to serving the needs of their stockholders, like CEOs everywhere, they also stress broader purpose. They take pride in enterprise success but also in family prosperity, regional advancement and national renaissance.

Bundled together, these principles constitute a distinctly Indian way of conducting business, one very different from other countries, especially the U.S., where the blend centres more on delivering shareholder value.
Company managers in the West can usefully learn from India's example. The time is right to better understand what is driving the Indian economic powerhouse, the company practices we have come to call the India Way.

For more, see - http://www.forbes.com/2010/04/14/india-business-way-leadership-citizenship-useem.html?boxes=leadershipchannellighttop 

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Effective Managers are Excellent Leaders

Most individuals want their managers first and foremost to be strong leaders.  

When you possess and display the following top 5 leadership qualities on a consistent basis, you will stand out from the pack as a highly effective manager:

  • Strong Performance – Managers need to meet and exceed performance standards on a daily basis.  They must have a very narrow “say-do gap” and always live up to the commitments they make.
  • Decisiveness – Managers must have the courage to make the tough calls.  While they realise that every decision might not be perfect, effective managers make well-reasoned and timely decisions.  They choose to live proactively – not reactively.
  • Accountability – Managers are always accountable for their actions and the decisions they make.  When a problem arises they look first to their own contributing actions (or lack there of).  Accountability breeds trust.   An effective manager is one who others see as a go-to person who will listen to their problems and help them to find solutions.
  • Strong Communication – Managers must be strong communicators.  They must clearly convey their expectations and consistently hold others accountable when those expectations are not met.  Effective managers do not shy away from confrontation because they understand that conflict is sometimes necessary to bring about resolution.
  • Service-Based Leadership – Managers truly care about those they lead.  They seek to remove obstacles that prevent others from reaching their fullest potential.  They are empathetic to others’ needs; however, they avoid coddling or enabling others because they are focused on individual growth and exceptional performance.
Effective managers are excellent leaders.  Incorporate these 5 top leadership qualities into your daily life and watch your team thrive! 

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Vision



Vision is one of the values of Positive Leadership.

This means:


  • DEVELOPING A CLEAR, COMPELLING AND CONVINCING PICTURE FOR THE FUTURE OF THE TEAM,  BUSINESS OR ORGANISATION
  • CREATING A FOCUSED COMMUNICATION AND IMPLEMENTATION STRATEGY
  • UNDERSTANDING THAT VISION CASTING IS A PROCESS, NOT AN EVENT.


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Saturday, May 15, 2010

"Self-Made People"

Do you know anyone who is a self-made man or woman - a self-made person?

From time to time, we hear someone describe him- or herself as "self-made." What they usually mean is that they weren't born to wealthy, successful parents, or that they managed to succeed in spite of great odds.

However, in the final analysis, all of us are self-made people. Of course, some of us get off to an easier start, and some of us are fortunate enough to have had parents or others who helped us recognise and use our talents.

But success is not a matter of luck, or talent, or of being gifted. More than anything else, success is a matter of belief and persistence.

If you don't believe you can succeed, no amount of talent or money or good parenting will help you. And if you do believe it and refuse to give up no matter how hard the struggle, no obstacle, no setback, no disadvantage will stop you.

George Bernard Shaw said it perfectly: "People are always blaming circumstances for what they are. But the people who get on in this world are those who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can't find them, they make them."

So take charge of your life by taking accountability for being who you are! 

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Resilience



Resilience is one of the values of Positive Leadership.

This means:

  • SUCCESS UNDER SUSTAINED PRESSURE
  • QUICK RECOVERY FROM SETBACKS
  • ‘BOUNCE BACK’ IN THE FACE OF ADVERSITY AND THREAT.


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Ego Strength

No one wants to think of themselves as having a "big ego," but having a strong ego is definitely a good thing.

How strong is your ego? Many people think that the term "ego" has something to do with being a braggart or totally self-interested, but they're wrong. Actually, psychologists tell us that the ego is that part of our personality that directs our activities, so we can get our needs met and survive. It's a normal and necessary part of who we are.

Having good ego strength means you perceive things accurately and have the ability to make wise decisions. It also generally means that you have self-confidence, self-esteem, and poise under pressure. 

Ego strength has nothing whatever to do with people we think of as having "big egos"- those macho folks who like to push other people around and blow their own horns.

On the contrary, it often shows up as resiliency - the ability to bounce back from adversity - and the flexibility to take advantage of change. According to Dr. Charles Garfield, author of Peak Performers: The New Heroes of American Business, ego strength - a thoughtful, systematic programme of personal growth - can help enormously. 

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