"Self-Made People"

Do you know anyone who is a self-made man or woman - a self-made person?

From time to time, we hear someone describe him- or herself as "self-made." What they usually mean is that they weren't born to wealthy, successful parents, or that they managed to succeed in spite of great odds.

However, in the final analysis, all of us are self-made people. Of course, some of us get off to an easier start, and some of us are fortunate enough to have had parents or others who helped us recognise and use our talents.

But success is not a matter of luck, or talent, or of being gifted. More than anything else, success is a matter of belief and persistence.

If you don't believe you can succeed, no amount of talent or money or good parenting will help you. And if you do believe it and refuse to give up no matter how hard the struggle, no obstacle, no setback, no disadvantage will stop you.

George Bernard Shaw said it perfectly: "People are always blaming circumstances for what they are. But the people who get on in this world are those who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can't find them, they make them."

So take charge of your life by taking accountability for being who you are! 

"Self-Made People"

Resilience

Resilience is one of the values of Positive Leadership.

This means:

• SUCCESS UNDER SUSTAINED PRESSURE
• QUICK RECOVERY FROM SETBACKS
• ‘BOUNCE BACK’ IN THE FACE OF ADVERSITY AND THREAT.

Resilience

Ego Strength

No one wants to think of themselves as having a "big ego," but having a strong ego is definitely a good thing.

How strong is your ego? Many people think that the term "ego" has something to do with being a braggart or totally self-interested, but they're wrong. Actually, psychologists tell us that the ego is that part of our personality that directs our activities, so we can get our needs met and survive. It's a normal and necessary part of who we are.

Having good ego strength means you perceive things accurately and have the ability to make wise decisions. It also generally means that you have self-confidence, self-esteem, and poise under pressure. 

Ego strength has nothing whatever to do with people we think of as having "big egos"- those macho folks who like to push other people around and blow their own horns.

On the contrary, it often shows up as resiliency - the ability to bounce back from adversity - and the flexibility to take advantage of change. According to Dr. Charles Garfield, author of Peak Performers: The New Heroes of American Business, ego strength - a thoughtful, systematic programme of personal growth - can help enormously. 

Ego Strength